So the big question has been popped and it’s time to start thinking about your wedding day! Before you begin the rest of your lives together, get ready for an exciting but bustling few months ahead. From the initial joy of sharing your engagement with your nearest and dearest comes the frenzy of planning the engagement party, bridal shower, bachelor/bachelorette parties, and the main event – your wedding day! The engagement period is short but oh so sweet; be sure to savor every moment and follow our tips on how to make the most of your engagement with ease!

Take your time: The engagement season is all about celebrating your love and commitment to one another, so there is no reason to rush things. Take your time to enjoy this special season of your relationship and revel in every moment.

Start Planning: While it's important to take it slow and enjoy the moment, it's also a good idea to start planning ahead for your future together. Start preparing your wedding budget, guest list, and other important details to ensure that your big day goes smoothly.

Tip: When selecting a venue, make a list of rentals or decor that would add to your special day. This will help you decide which venue fits your style and wallet best while having all the information necessary to reach out to event rental companies. Check out Total Events’ extensive rental catalog here to embellish your wedding day! 

Embrace the traditional or nontraditional: Weather you opt for conventional pre-wedding celebrations, ditch the celebrations altogether or, meet somewhere in the middle, it is all about you. There is no better way to express yourselves as a couple!

Spend quality time together: Ultimately, your engagement is a transitional period for your relationship that won’t last forever. Don’t let the stress of wedding planning overwhelm this happy moment, rather let it bring you closer than ever. Set some time aside to be present together without discussing the wedding. 

Surround yourself with loved ones: The engagement season is the perfect time to celebrate with your friends and family. Surround yourself with the people you love and let them support you as you plan for a lifetime of joy together. So when it comes to hosting your engagement party, how do you know where to begin? Follow our tips to get started on planning the perfect engagement party!

1. Decide on the logistics. The engagement party can be as formal or informal of an affair as you desire. Will you opt for an intimate gathering in your backyard or a big bash at a venue? Once you select the who, what, when, and where then it’s time to get creative!

2. Send out Invitations. Let your guests know about your engagement party at least four weeks in advance so they will have plenty of time to RSVP. Your stationery (paper or electronic) can vary from your wedding stationery in color, font, and design. 

3. Set the Scene. Now that you know where you are hosting your celebration, it’s time to plan the decorations. You can select a theme or simply choose a color scheme to tie in all of the elements of your party. Elevate your tables with specialty linens, ornate centerpieces, and of course, romantic candlelight. Create a photo backdrop for your guests to capture the moment or a lounge area for friends and family to connect.

4. Make the Menu. The best connections are made over delicious food and drinks. Whether that be a sit-down dinner or passed hor d'oeuvres. Why not enhance the meal with elegant dinnerware? Frame your plate with one of our chargers and elevated cutlery. Add a vintage touch to your event with our selection of ornate-colored glassware. 

Remember, the most important thing is to do something that feels special and meaningful to you as a couple. Whether it's a big celebration or a simple, intimate gesture, make it a moment that you'll always remember.

If you still aren’t sure where to begin when planning your engagement party or wedding decor, contact us to meet with one of our expert Event Specialists.